Love is in the air this month; with Valentine’s Day just around the corner, why not charge those energies of serenity and sensuality in the bedroom by using the following 10 Feng Shui tips to better your relationship. Build a stronger bond in your relationships with feng shui.
#1 Minimize your stuff – Bedrooms are meant to sleep, read, reflect, romance, and rejuvenate. Declutter and keep the bedroom as the bedroom. Get rid of your tv, workout gear, or desk in your bedroom.
#2 NO TV- As mentioned above, a bedroom is meant to sleep, read, reflect, romance, and rejuvenate; you don’t need any other distractions. Couples who keep a TV in the bedroom have sex half as often as those who don’t.
#3 Decorate keeping symmetry in mind – If you want your relationship to be in sync, you must show symmetry in the bedroom. For example, there should be a nightstand on each bedside and a balance of what is on the nightstand. If you have one lamp, it will show an imbalance which will reflect on your relationship. Correcting the imbalance will immediately shift the relationship.
#4 Choose appropriate artwork- Be strategic when choosing artwork for your bedroom. You want to have calming, romantic scenes. The imagery is of you and your partner, especially fond recent memory. Avoid groupings of three, like three people or three animals, to bring a third party into the relationship. If you are single and looking for a partner, avoid solo figures.
#5 Don’t have the bedside against the wall – The person sleeping on the wall side will energetically have the loss of power. Both of you need equal access on both sides of the bed.
#6 Headboard – Having a headboard provides support for a relationship. You want a solid surface behind you that will energetically support you. The best materials are wood or fabric.
#7 Select natural sensual linens – Go all out on bedding. The more comfy your bed is, the more you will want to spend in it and maintain a great night’s sleep.
#8 Choose the right colour- Pick a warm monochromatic colour scheme, not bright ones.
#9 Choose the proper lighting- you want to have a variation of lighting. Soft ambient lighting will set the mood for romance
#10- NO MIRRORS PLEASE – If there is one thing you take from this, avoid having a mirror in your bedroom. If you can’t remove it drape it with a sheet when going to bed. Mirrors interfere with a good night’s sleep by causing restlessness and insomnia. Mirrors bounce all sorts of energy and may provide past energy and invite a third party. It’s said that mirrors are portals to other dimensions. I would keep them out of the bedroom if you can.
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